EVERYONE FINICKY HELPED ME WRITE THIS, WELL I TOLD HER THE STORY AND SHE WROTE MOST OF IT!! TALENTED HUH??
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So you guys, I have this friend that called me earlier today informing me about an incident that she had encountered a couple of days ago. She really broke my heart so here it is..
A few days back she added this random guy on facebook. He messaged her after a while asking her who she was. Her name was Tala, his name was Rakan. Tala and Rakan talked for the rest of the day and they got to know each other. She admired the fact that he was really honest about himself and didn't have anything to hide. So the next day was a bit of the same dilemma, Tala talked to Rakan the whole day even while she was in University. They attended different universities but she enjoyed each and every moment of their chit chats. She really got to know him better and so did he.
That was when he asked to see her. After she agreed, Rakan gave her his phone number on msn. She had second thoughts at first but she was so eager to see him. Tala felt that he was different; she was certainly not the type that went out with guys or had previous relationships. She was too afraid that by doing that she'd be letting her parents down.
Tala dressed up and made sure that she looked good before she headed for Starbucks. Just her luck, Rakan was to keep it simple second to be none.. in other words flawless. He was tall, really well built, and most of all drop dead gorgeous! She had a majestic time and really enjoyed it but guilt kept stroking her back.
She messaged him as soon as she headed back home;
“Rakan, I'm really sorry but what we're doing is wrong and I can't betray my family's trust and let them down. I'm so sorry but we can still be friends.”
Reply:
“ when i started to get hung up on you? why are you doing this to me?”
She couldn't help it, and replied behind her tears
“Rakan I'm so sorry, I swear I'm even crying, you think I don't want this? Wallah I do but I feel like a bitch doing so”
He didn't reply after a few minutes she sent him another message:
“ we can still be friends”
Rakan replied instantly:
“ wallah 5nigatni el 3abra. Can lovers be friends?”
Tala replied: “ No but you never know what happens, yimkin in time we skip the whole dating stage and be together”
Beep: “ inshalla ily tabeena be9eer w wallah ur one of a kind, and ana met2aked ina time is between us w our paths are going to go across each other w betkooneen min ni9eeby one day inshala”
Tala replied: “ inshala, Rakan if you don't mind please delete my number w itha u want to be friends and need anything you have my email”
“Inshala”
You know that feeling that you want something so bad but you can't have it? That was her position right now. She couldn't just cut him off her life, I know you think that it was too soon for him to like her that much bas wayid irta7aw 7ag ba3ath. As a matter of fact, they talked to each other on msn every once in a while, and he recently told her:
Rakan: Tala ana I talked to my mom, i really needed to talk to someone for advice and I know that she's wise and more experienced I just don't want you to get away from my hands but her words really comforted me, she told me ina inshala itha intay min ni9eebi I'm gonna have you, and I'm sure that you are min ni9eebi inshala”
What was she to say to that? She was crying so much and she really broke my heart! I really wish that I can help her but she can't have him not right now, and they both want each other so badly. He can't propose due to his current status, he wants to graduate, work and have his own income then propose. So what is she to do?
This year?
4 months ago
FIRST!
ReplyDeletein your face exq:p
i love you:*
lol rasich yaabis:*
ReplyDeleteanyways it has been my pleasure to do so and remember anytime u need help i'm here for you:)
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inshalla 7ayati thx;* and lol finally first;)
ReplyDeletehe sound like a great guy wayed mu7taram illi he talked to his mom about this! ya3ne a7is laythee3 min eedha.. i say she should talk to her mom about him too.. tgoulaha nothing but the truth.. ina she became friends with a guy oo they fell for each other bas she doesnt want to do anything behind her parents' backs.. oo tgoulaha ina he talked to his mom too 3ashan twareeha how serious this is (or itha her parents arent that open minded when it comes to guy-girl friendships she should ask him to let his mom talk to her mom) so his mom and her mom should work this out ya3ni it9eer secret extended khi6ba (dating "bi7tiram" in other words ;p) till he can graduate and ikawen nafsa..
ReplyDeleteAllah isa3edha its hard to love someone and not be with them.. bas inshallah everything works out perfectly ;)
He seems like he is a great guy, and for now since she doesnt want to let her parents down mla da3y messaging (phone) bs let them stay in touch through msn or emails. I think he is worth holding on to, its hard to find a great guy so when you do you have to hold on to him. How about this, 5i6bat ahal? so they get to know each other 3la ma they graduate. The parents will know, no lying, no hiding, and no guilt. Plus she will get to see him in a different light how he is with her family, how he is with his family you know?
ReplyDeleteCause with this, they wouldnt be tempted to do anything wrong and if la sm7 alah it didnt work it 3dy each one will go on his way ;**
methil ma galat lama FINALLY first;p ahaha!
ReplyDeletei love you too babe 3alaich bil 3afyaa;**
i knw its not easy ya3ne hal shay hatha e7aded mostaqbalhum ow 7ayat.hum bs agoul etha yakh6ebha al7een ow mu ela they make things official they can wait 3ala ma yetkharaj ow yeshtiqil ow ekawen nafs etc. bs etha they both want each other then eb rayii a7san shay ena ekha6eha 3ashan both yerta7un.. ow etha he didnt propuse to her fa ehya ma laha ela ena tan6er 3alaih etha she truly loves him ow tabeh.. i hope she figure things out.. allah e3eenha;)
finicky shhal 7araaakt ba3ad gumtay taktibeen posts;p haha love u babe;**
lama waiting for a new post ow salmay 3ala masooka el 7elwaa;**
3ajabne kalam love, i agree 100% ma3a kalamha;)
ReplyDeleteawww:(, she shouldnt do this, i mean fight her feelings just because she thinks its wrong, if they feel something going on they should act about it in thE RIGHT way, y3ny they keep in touch bas bedoon mas5ara;p, get it? i dont like when ppl break up:( it kills moi:'(!!
ReplyDeletewell if i were in her shoes , i'd go tell my mom she'll understand inshalla, and then i can liek to the guy as in getting to know each other more (bdon 7rakt and stuff) ..
ReplyDeleteOr they can do like a 5o6ba bs ma y3lonoha ela ma they're both ready, like his parents yro7o o ino we want bntkm bs nothing now the guy has like wat lets say 2 years ahead , so what happens ino they're m56oben and both parents know bs not the world u know 3shan ma y7son its serious or something o b3ad ma ykono ready y3lnoon el5o6ba .. btw that happened to both my cousins , they got engaged really early bs their dad wasn't ready ino he was like bdre so jlso m56obeen both my cousins for 2 years then milka sana then they got married ..
So, it can happen .. ino 5o6ba m7d ydre 3nha like having a boyfriend my parents know abt bs the world doesnt its moree7 ;)
mdre hope this helps ;)
dumb post .. msawya salfa mn walashay.. low yabeha yklm ahlha. period. mafeha shl7al oo ma7el? yabeha ydsh mn bab bat'ha oo ya56bha oo bla dala3 yahal ..
ReplyDelete7araam ;x
ReplyDeleteIm with Love 100% ..
5atgooL 7ag her family .
oo etha he wants her so bad .. 5aL ya56ebha :) it's not a hard thing to do etha uhwa serious about her :)
I go with what Love said ..el ahal yadroon, and they can get to know each other till he graduates .. it's the most appropriate thing to do.
ReplyDeleteI think that she should talk to him..
ReplyDeleteAt least start with smsing bs! Let her take it slow.. Y3ni may9eer she cuts him off oo she wants him at the same time, o miskeen he wants her as well o itha kan gader chan 5e6ab'ha fa why not take it slow.. o they should make a deal that no phone calls wela seeing each other (so she doesnt feel guilty).. bs texting. They would get to know each other more oo its better than not talking to him because its hurting both sides.
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ReplyDeleteLove;** is right.. ! i just read her comment!
ReplyDeletehaha exq, 6ab3an ya3jibich it's love;**!!:p
ReplyDeleteba3dain shiftay shloun:p i have these talents that you guys don't knw about:p and stop being a suck up tryin to get Lama on ur side by "salmeely 3ala masooka":p ur not gonna write for her:p plus i love you tpp:*:$
lamaaaa booseeeli masooookaaa:p and "no i'm not being a suck up";p
too*
ReplyDeleteLet him propose if he was ih his last yr of jam3a, them make the 56ba longer;p thats what most of my cousins do
ReplyDeleteAnonymous :
ReplyDeleteee I think he is mu7taram and great too!! And its so cute how he talked to her mom about her;p! what I know of her mom isn’t open to this subject, bas hopefully that will happen!!:) and HAHAHA dating "bi7tiram" true true;P
love ;** :
LOVE I'm with you 1000%, bas he wants to wait till yet5araj and ya56obha, you know? And shay thany, ur right phones a7es malah da3y ya3ni they decided on msn which I think is soo much more usefull and its hard to find a guy like that true, I think she should just hold on to him!
Exquisite:* :
haha inshalla you9al il salam;** he told her nafs il kalam yabe yet5araj w ykawen nafsa bas ana madree shfeeha she is so eager to be with him;/ I think she should get to know him kah friends more then c what happens…
moi :
I don’t like when people break up either ;( bas I think they will figure something out inshalla!
Pearla :
Haha yea true, I agree with u, and I liked the dating and not feeling guilty part;p
youcompleteme :
eee ur right! I think she should do that too, and I think they deserve each other!!
S :
True true,,,
Cinderella :
Ee I told her that bas she is like, ill feel too guilty, she says they are going to stay on msn and emails and bain kil fatra shell call and say hi… do u think that would be good?
Finicky:* :
Looooooooool cute finicky;** you9aal;p
Queen Bee :
Ee I told her that!!;p
FYI finicky a9lan hathy mu awal marah agoulaha salmay 3ala masooka!!!;p a9lan let lama tell you ena im misk's babysitter haha fa ma7ad is sucking up here;p and i love you too;****
ReplyDeletei knw ur talented akeed you are maku a7ad methlich a9laan;) (its not sarcasim wallah)
im feeeeling the same way wala :(
ReplyDeletechena ur talkin about me :(
i dont wanna build a relationship behind my familys back and at the same time i love him :( o i cant tell him come ekh6bney ! for god sake mayser ag6 3omre 3laih like this ;s !
ma3ena he said so ena awal maytakharaj he will!
o ghair hatha etha i cant trust the future ;s iffff im so confused :'(
Anony: Goodluck with that.. It is kinda tough.. u can't deny what u're feeling, or how he feels towards u, but still be aware of what u're doing and what u're saying so that things don't get out of control.. with time inshala it'll be easier for both of u to decide, o bitkoneen miqtan3a akthar beli tikhtaraina.
ReplyDeleteLama .. Goodluck to ur friend;*
Anonymous; honey i know what ur going through!!;/ no one can trust the future, just trust your feelings:) and itha u love and trust him, wait for him hell come around itha he promised, w etha rayal then kilmeta wa7da!! mu 9a7?
ReplyDeleteS: thanks honey:*
aww i'm flattered, you're makin me blush now:p
ReplyDeletetaraa ham ana babysitter apparently:p ana 3alabo ini il gizeeza eli bag3ad ma3a lama bas it seems ina bajabilha at first which i dnt mind:p
we'll baby sit together:p
3alashan maskeena misk min saghrat'ha ti5tirib we'll corrupt her innocence:p haha:*
lool finicky la 7aram lama etyanin fa i thnk lazem ensawee ru7na san3een shwaya 7g bint.ha;p lazem etkun mo'adaba 3ashan matfashel ahalhaa;p shofay wehya baby en3alimha the good thngs bs lama tekbar enkharibhaa 3adel;p ahaha!
ReplyDeletelama i hope 3ugub my comment matghayreen rayech fena tara ana ow rifeejty san3een mu chethy;p bintich eb te6la3 mo'adabaa dnt wry;p hahaha
el 7ilwa wainha? we miss you;*
ReplyDeleteanaa 3indi ya56ibha ok?? 3ashan ahal il bint yadroon ya3ni matsawee shay ma3ahom 5osh bint hathi wala. fa ya56ibha inzain bes ye3ni mo shar6 kil il dinya t3arif bes bain il ahal oo ikalmoon ba3ath MO MIN wara ahalhom and then 3ala i5ali9 derasa oo yabdi his life yamlichoon:)) 9a7??
ReplyDelete** ba3dain yamlichoon:)) 9aaa7?:D:D
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